I've been dating this guy for 5 years and we don't talk about being engaged or marriage we have friends that have been dating for way less then we are and they're talking bout moving out and being engaged within two years, I don't know why me and my boyfriend don't talk about it and I don't know how to bring it up either because I don't want rush things, idk what to do?
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You're young, no point in bringing in that talk yet.
If you've been together this long then I think you will eventually take that next step.
I remember one of my professors at school always said "If you do things in the order they are meant to happen. Then you won't have any regrets later in life"
The order he was referring to in this case was - School/Career, Marriage, Kids.
He was with his Girlfriend for 6 years while he was finishing school. He knew that if the girl was with him all that time, and was patient with him accomplishing his goals, that she was the one. They ended up getting married and having 3 kids.3