I just found out a few days ago that my best friend is sleeping with his ex still. He just poured it all to me when we were drinking with a couple of friends. I'm going to be his best man at his wedding and I'm not sure how I feel about this. Or what I should even do because im close to the bride as well. He'd use me as an excuse all the time to see this girl and I didn't even know about this. He said he used me because the bride trusts me.
His story is he bumped into his ex a few months ago when she flew down to visit a couple of friends. They are not really ex but they used to hook up a lot during senior year of high school. She really liked him and he somewhat liked her at the beginning then realized he really liked her when she moved away. He was depressed for a while until he met the bride. She's staying here for a while and so he's been sleeping with her as well. He even thinks she may be pregnant and feels like he's doing nothing wrong since the bride does not believe in sex before marriage.
I personally hate cheating how could someone do this to someone? He's getting married in a couple of months and I'm now in a very awkward position.
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I don't know the rules about Bro Code, but I would definitely tell the woman. If, let's say, my best gal friend was sleeping around on her fiance, I wouldn't ever want to put that man through that. I could not with good conscience allow that man to suffer.
I don't deal with hurting innocent people so I would definitely tell the bride. This is me though. If you were in this situation, how would you want it to be handled (would you want to be told that your fiancee was cheating on you)?0