Our 1 year anniversary is in 2 weeks, but I just found out my wife is committing infidelity. Should I leave?

Hubris00
I'm 25 years old and my wife is 23. Needless to say, we got married pretty young.

I found out two days ago that my wife has been
committing online infidelity. While we were on a date enjoying ourselves I saw a name pop up on her phone using snapchat. It was a guy's name I saw pop up on her instagram a few months ago while we were laying down, but she said it was nothing. Well, I'm analyst so I easily connected the dots and confronted her about it. Apparently, she met this guy at her job, he found her on social media sites and now they have been conversing online. He's also married so I guess they felt pretty secure committing this infidelity.

This isn't the first time she has done this. She has done some very sneaky and hurtful things in the past before our marriage, but supposedly no physical cheating. I know we've had ups and downs during this first year of marriage, but to sneak around, lock your phone, lay down next to me and commit infidelity in less than a 1 year sounds like a bad sign.

She also admitted that she has thought about cheating on me multiple times. She said she's not attracted to me sexually (but im not even ugly :p) and she has a crazy infatuation with books about affairs.

I love her, but logic tells me this is a sign of things to come because it's in her nature. We started dating when she was 18 and I don't think she was prepared for marriage.

She has been begging me for forgiveness and promises to never do anything like this. I know I can forgive her because I love her, but it may not be the best decision.

Should I end this marriage now and save us both the heartbreak and time?
Our 1 year anniversary is in 2 weeks, but I just found out my wife is committing infidelity. Should I leave?
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