So, I went back to school this year after having a kid and being out for a couple years. I am just absolutely smitten with this guy. I was engaged but recently we have stepped back to take ion everything that's happened in the last year between us and I needed some space.
anyways. I always catch him looking in my direction, we're always saying stupid sexual crap back and forth and I think he is the most absolutely ridiculously hot older guy I have ever seen. he's 16 years older than me and married. I feel like an idiot flirting with him because he's married and I feel like it would be stupid to continue flirting with him because well it's kind of useless, as if it's only an ego boost for the both of us.
I'm not saying that I necessarily want anything to happen. but man lol I am so frustrated ;) before me and my fiance's split thinger we hadn't had sex in FOR EVER! so I guess I don't know what to say or do about this?
should I stop talking to him.. stop flirting with him knowing that my intentions probably aren't as pure as they would be etc.. I don't really know what to think. like h always tells me things like I'm smart and funny and a great person. any guy would be lucky to have me etc... well I'm confused. hopeful you guys can provide me some insight..
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I think you should stop, remember it's not only you and him in this it's his WIFE and your fiancée...even if estranged could you imagine the look on his face if he saw you 2...or the hurt you would feel if someone esp. your husband did that to you...and these cases have often led to cheating...i understand you don't get the sttention you deserve from you fiancée but talk to him about it, and work it out if you think you can't I'm sure you are a great person and will find someone else to show that attention to you...just please stop this b4 all 4 of you get hurt1
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