About a year ago I found messages on my wife's phone between her and a friend of mine. These messages were explicit in nature. I confronted him about it and he says that they had screwed around once. When I confronted her she denied and said that the messages were jokes. I asked her in front of him and he said yes she said no. After this she insisted on him and me still being friends and that she wanted to stay friends with him. Which one is lying? I looked for messages between them after that and would notice she was deleting texts between them.
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Was she angry with him when he said they were cheating?
Wait nvm. I know this might come off as silly, but I think the texts in itself are her cheating on you. Like if my boyfriend was sexting up some girl, or even just texting her in a flirty way, I'd break up with him for cheating and disrespecting me. I would never be able to stay with someone who'd do that to me.
.. I'm not saying you should divorce your wife, but I personally think she "cheated" on you based on their messages alone. I'm sorry you're going through this :(0