Ok, so me and my man have been dating for 6 months. He is basically the most amazing man I have ever met we have so much in common and he may not be perfect but we are prefect together.
Now we have been living together for about 3 months and we started a talk about marriage recently. We were IM'ing back and forth from work and I mentioned that if I were to choose an age to get married it would be 23, I'M 21 NOW. He asked me why I said if, I told him that I don't see him proposing anytime soon, he asked me then well what time of year would you like to be married?
I answered that the fall would be ideal and he answered and how much time do you need to plan a wedding I answered at least 9 months. He merely said ok. I was wondering if he is thinking to pop the question anytime soon? What do you guys and girls think?
Oh yea he gave me a promise ring, and were talking about people we'd invite if we were to get married and how much it would cost. Also we're thinking and talking about moving to Virginia together.
- He's gonna ask you in a year if not less!Vote A
- He's not even thinking marriage, think promise ring.Vote B
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Wait a minute, that doesn't make sense to me. The two of you have only been seeing each other for 6 months and he already wants to marry you. The guy has issues and he's hiding them from you. I would suggest you move in with him first for at least another 6 months before you decide on marrying the guy. Also, I have already seen a lot of women on Dating websites that were divorced before they turned 30 because they rushed into marriage. If the two of you like each other then I suggest the two of you wait until after you both turn 25. Marriage sounds great and all from the beginning but in reality it's a lot of hard work. I'm 26 and never been married but even I know how much it takes to be married to just one person for the rest of my life.1