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If she is 'letting herself go' because she doesn't care than kick her to the curb. In a marriage both party's must always work on themselves to improve oneself and the merrage. Both must also support and help each other with this. If she wants to improve then support her. If not then find someone who wants to. If a guy looses his job and dosen't try to get another than a woman will leave him. Can't blame her, he is failing the merrage. If a guy chooses to become lazy and fat (as so many do) and dosent want to work to fix it then she should consider kicking him to the curb. If a woman chooses to become lazy and not work on herself then she is letting the merrage down as well.
If she is just getting older then that's a different story, or if she is suffering an illness- with that, you must support her. But if she is just giving up then she is not taking the merrage seriously.
Both party's must work for improvement.
People now don't seem to realize that a great merrage will be some of the hardest work you will ever attempt. But the rewards are amazing and very worth it. Nobody is perfect as they are. It is those who work to improve themselves constantly that achieve greatness. This is true of everything, not just merrage. Great musicians still need to practice. So does tiger woods. Nobody can say 'well I've achieved greatness- so now I don't need to try anymore." We all must keep trying.0