So we have been married for 5 years now and my husband never seems to take my side. If there is a dispute between me and someone else he will pick their side, even if I am in the right. He also tends to think I am uneducated or dumb because if I give him advice or a piece of information, he does not believe me. If someone in his family, such as his sister or mother say the exact same thing to him, he believes them even if I, his wife, had told him before.
Same goes for activities, if I suggest something, he says no out right and when I ask him why, he says its because he thinks its lame or boring. Yet a friend has to suggest it and then we do it and he "can't wait".
I have told him what he does hurts me. I have told him over and over and his reaction is always the same.. he ignores me and gives me the silent treatment. He has gone 2 weeks without talking to me before ( he knows this hurts me too)
Please help a hurt and unloved wife.
Same goes for activities, if I suggest something, he says no out right and when I ask him why, he says its because he thinks its lame or boring. Yet a friend has to suggest it and then we do it and he "can't wait".
I have told him what he does hurts me. I have told him over and over and his reaction is always the same.. he ignores me and gives me the silent treatment. He has gone 2 weeks without talking to me before ( he knows this hurts me too)
Please help a hurt and unloved wife.
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