Well, I've been with this great amazing guy now for 2years this coming Feb. He is the greatest boyfriend ever, he's been there when no one else was, and he helped me get over a BIG problem I had. Well now he's talking about getting married after we grad from high school this coming May. Well I do want to marry him around next fall, but everyone keeps telling me that its too soon, and everything. Were moving in together this June.
So are they right is this too soon? Should we wait, until after college?
I do love him and want to marry him. But I don't know what to do.
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Well, it is fast. But then my wife and I know we would be married when we first met. It was a true case of 'love at first sight". But we were older than 18. Your ages aren't helping. The feelings are there, but you can't trust feelings. With your inexperience, you could get into a heap of trouble after the "honeymoon" period is over.
If there's sex involved the picture is much more complex. That alone would indicate that your feelings are taking over. You both need to have clear heads for a decision of this magnitude.
I wish you both the best,