We have been together 5 years have a kid we are buying our first home I asked him if we were ever going to get married and he said not now cause we are already together. How should I take that?
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this is one of the bigger reasons that I'm against moving in together before your married.
all of a sudden being married is just a technicality which many people decide is just unnecessary.
i would be very taken aback by his statement... and kinda disturbed.
i think its important for a child to have two married parents whenever possible.
not being married also makes it easier for the relationship to just break apart.
thats just my two cents tho.3