I love her but we now are in a long distance relationship and it has been hard because every time I ask when we're finally going to get married she says "lets get married now" or jokes it off somehow or asks me the same question. It's like it goes nowhere even when I try to be serious. I know she loves me and would be heartbroken if we broke up, so it's not like the relationship is bad but I'm sick of waiting. It's a struggle and I've recently started having feelings I have to fight for other girls when we're not with each other because of the long periods of time we go without seeing each other. I need advice.
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Tell her that you are being true blue but facing temptation and beginning to wonder what you are waiting for. Tell her that you may soon begin to doubt her sincerity about the engagement.
I had a friend in law school who was engaged for 1 year before law school and for the 3 years of law school, then returned home and finally married his fiancée. Within a few months, she congested that she was a lesbian and the marriage was annulled. He wasted 4 years of his life on someone who really didn't want him.
Also, if you have a chance, find a copy of the 1955 film version of "Guys and Dolls," and watch it with her. One of the main characters, Nathan Detroit, has been engaged to Miss Adelaide for 14 years and she is suffering from a psychosomatic ailment as a result. The engagement is treated as a farce.0