My wife rarely pays any attention to me. And i asked her to pay more attention to me so she said we will have more family time together (me, her, and the kid) but i want us to have alone time together. She said no and the only time we will spend together aside from sleeping in the same room is the time we spend together with our kid
She says that because children need more attention than an adult, it is ok for her to pay very little individual attention to her husband.
Is she wrong?
- Yes she is wrongVote A
- No she isn't wrongVote B
Most Helpful Girl
You're her partner. Of course you deserve attention and love. The child needs attention, but affection shouldn't die off when the child is born. I don't know how she developed this warped sense of logic, but you should see if you get her to understand how you are lacking and craving attention from her. And if you can't convince her, then I would recommend asking to go to counseling a few times.