my finance is in the military. My friends say it's a bad idea because every time he is with the army (once a month for three days/two nights) they tell me he is probably around a lot of girls. They say that if he gets deployed soon, he will get tired of having no contact (sexually) with a girl and he will end up cheating on me. They also tell me that since he has been gone all month out of state, (3 weeks of summer training) that they are around girls and he probably "talks" to them. That it isn't that hard to cheat. I trust my Fiancé with my life. I know he will never cheat on me. We have been together for a year and a half. We have never had problems with him and other girls. But my friends say he's just good at hiding it? Are they right? I really hope not. Like, I know he's not doing anything. I trust him with my whole life. But they keep putting thing in my head, I don't know what to think anymore. Please help...
- They are right.Vote A
- They are NOT right.Vote B
- They COULD BE right?Vote C
Most Helpful Girl
You need new friends! Omg
He is your fiancé. Do you think he would risk your marriage in the future for some random girl hanging around those guys? You say he's gone once a month for 3 days. I think a guy can go without sex for 3 days lol. And 3 weeks for training isn't long at all. And when he's gone, he's most likely BUSY doing army stuff. He's not on some vacation hanging around other women. He is at his job.
If you trust him, what they say shouldn't matter.6
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