I overheard an older woman (40s) say she wish never wish marriage on any one.
She was telling another lady she needs a boyfriend to play with because she is free like a bird.
Marriage only holds you back
I was shocked that she would say this.
Sure , we have all had bad experiences with certain things in life but to completely disagree with something altogether makes me wonder how badly she had it.
Most Helpful Guy
Some marriages can be bad some are good just depends on if the two were actually meant for each other. Maybe that lady was getting no sex from her husband. When your in a relationship don't give each other a reason to cheat. Marriage is never easy it's very hard to love someone and accept their negative side. Marriage is about being committed and loyal to each other to be loving caring and understanding. A lot of people have really forgotten what love is or what true love is. The problem with some women or men is they are looking for that perfect lover or rather a fantasy. It's not gonna happen because no one is perfect. Always wait for the right guy or woman to come along in your life.1
Most Helpful Girl
My marriage didn't limit me. I didn't WANT to be free to sleep with other men, so there was no cost there. In every other way, I was as free to do what I wanted as a married woman as I was single. Of course, all of my friendships limit my "freedom" to be bitchy and mean to my friends if I want to maintain those friendships, so in the sense that I had to be thoughtful and considerate to my spouse, I suppose you could name that as limiting, but it's not marriage that makes that rule - it's the natural order of things that I have to be good to the people around me if I don't want to be socially isolated.1