I'm starting to give up on the idea of marriage. As a man, its too risky. Its too easy for a woman to take everything i have. But at the same time i want the love of my life. I want a permanent, monogomous, committed relationship... without legal marriage. We could even have an unnoficial wedding. We could get wedding rings. The only difference is that we won't sign any legal documents confirming that we are official spouses. We could still be husband and wife, just with no legal documents.
Would any of you be open to this idea?
- I wouldVote A
- I wouldn'tVote B
- OtherVote C
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The kind of man I want would never in his right mind agree to marriage terms under feminist law. Feminism is slowly infiltrating my country too and I'm sure we're almost the same as the West. That's why I would never expect, or ask him to marry me lawfully if I found the terms unfair. Maybe where I live with some decent pre-nup, but only if he wanted it himself. In the West, I don't think a pre-nup is of any worth, so...
I'd want commitment before our community, maybe a small party to announce it somehow, built life together, I'd want rings to show we're married and I'd want my children lawfully his. But I would feel like I'm insulting my man if I asked him to sign a contract that enables me to fuck him in the ass if I wanted to.0