I really believe that it's completely up to her, if she likes to keep her last name then let her keep it and if she likes to change it to my last name then let change it, I'm completely indifferent about that. It's not an issue.
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Well, ik I am only 15 but if I ended up marrying the guy I'm with (fingers crossed, we've already been together 4 a year haha) I'm afraid I would have to keep my name. His surname is horrible, it sounds really bad with my name... But I guess my future babies could have his surname, i'd just have to name accordingly
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I wouldn't change it. This is my identity, this is the person I have been for the last 27 years, why would I change it?
I believe in marriage, my parents have been married for more that 33 years and my mom never changed her last name.
I read that someone said "I need to make decisions for both of us". No, we take decisions together.
Definitely times have changed and you can married whoever you want.
I would take my husbands last name and keep my original last name for business. I also like the idea of combining our names together. For example West and Kardashian would be Westian. Bad example but you catch my drift.
I always think that having children definitely complicates things. Fortunately, neither me or my boyfriend want kids so it's a non-issue that we both want to keep our last names. I have a long last name, though, so hyphenating would be a terrible option for us if we did want to have kids.
I would keep my surname but also take my husbands surname so it's like a dual surname lool :)
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If changing your last name is a person's only concern when it comes to marriage then he/she does not deserve to be married at all because they don't know anything about marriage
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I'm going to change my last name to his but put my last name as the middle letter. Like my name, R., His last name
That's cute
I really believe that it's completely up to her, if she likes to keep her last name then let her keep it and if she likes to change it to my last name then let change it, I'm completely indifferent about that. It's not an issue.
Well, ik I am only 15 but if I ended up marrying the guy I'm with (fingers crossed, we've already been together 4 a year haha) I'm afraid I would have to keep my name. His surname is horrible, it sounds really bad with my name... But I guess my future babies could have his surname, i'd just have to name accordingly
I wouldn't change it. This is my identity, this is the person I have been for the last 27 years, why would I change it?
I believe in marriage, my parents have been married for more that 33 years and my mom never changed her last name.
I read that someone said "I need to make decisions for both of us". No, we take decisions together.
Definitely times have changed and you can married whoever you want.
I would take my husbands last name and keep my original last name for business. I also like the idea of combining our names together. For example West and Kardashian would be Westian. Bad example but you catch my drift.
Lol yeah i get it. Cute idea.
I would prefer if whom ever I marry takes my last name but I'm not going to be really angry or anything if she keeps her last name.
I'd be cool with her keeping her own. If we were to have kids though I'd want the kids to have both last names.
I always think that having children definitely complicates things. Fortunately, neither me or my boyfriend want kids so it's a non-issue that we both want to keep our last names. I have a long last name, though, so hyphenating would be a terrible option for us if we did want to have kids.
I'm probably gonna change my last name to my husbands. I think it makes the most sense.
I took my husbands. But that is a personal decision.
I would want to change my last name if I liked my husbands last name. If not I would just keep mine or he can change his last name to mine.
We kept our separate names. Its easier and she is published. We know that most will refer to us as "mr and mrs x" but oh well.
I keep mine and he keep's his. That's how all the women do it in my country and I like it.
I would keep my surname but also take my husbands surname so it's like a dual surname lool :)
If changing your last name is a person's only concern when it comes to marriage then he/she does not deserve to be married at all because they don't know anything about marriage
I would change my last name. ☺
I would be OK with her keeping hers. I wouldn't be OK with losing mine.
I would rather have the same last name, however it doesn't matter if I take hers or she takes mine.
No my last name is Peacock and I wanted to get rid of that name since the day I was born.
I wanted my wife's surname but she's too traditional and wouldn't have any of that.
I'm with your wife on this one
Well, now she has a surname she can't even pronounce :D
In my culture women should keep there last name
Really? What country do u live in, if you don't mind me asking :)
Egypt , I never met anyone in here named after there husbands we don't have those no one does that here actually
Ditto !
That's really interesting
Actually no lol 😂
I don't know why in the west this happens
Woah, really? I never knew that was a thing! That's interesting.
@Sara413 about what exactly?
That Egyptian women don't take their husbands surname.
@Sara413 yeah that's NEVER happens like really NEVER