My fiance got raped three weeks ago (she doesn't know remember much about it) and the guy even soled her engagement ring. She doesn't want to do anything sexual. How to can I got to sleep with? I have needs. If I'm missing the point please me (nicely). We haven't really the wedding yet since got engage 4 months ago.
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You will absolutely have to wait till her therapy is finished (I sincerely hope she sees a therapist)
Until SHE proposes sex.
Right now she needs love. Cuddling, not sex.
Rape is very serious and hurts mentally even MUCH more than physically. Some never get over it.
You shouldn't even be worrying about your needs but you should be worrying about HER distress. You should be showing your love and esteem.
If you love her, your needs will come second. Your right hand can take care of your 'needs'.
It's way worse for her than it might be for you.5