She wasn't virgin but supposely found it important and cared about doing it the right way after a few failed relationships. I had been ready since my HS years and well when I knew we were going to date a year more, it made me more sexually frustrated.
We got married by Now of last year (it was then my first time, I was already 26) but ever since April or so, our intimacy has decreased to once-twice a week (sometimes only once). Plus, she now avoids the topic of kids. She's been acting strange, as not being herself anymore and kind of distant.
Most Helpful Girl
... sit her down and talk to her. She made you wait and now she's backing out on it. NO ONE should limit your happiness like this. If it is really an issue and something you want (esp the kids) and she still won't listen, I would personally leave her. No one is stopping me from having a son in the future. If my boyfriend at some point says he doesn't want any kids, I'll just tell him he must not want me in his life anymore. Only one who can hinder my happiness is myself. Don't settle for someone who doesn't care about your happiness. I wish you well.2
Most Helpful Guy
And this is why you don't wait until marriage. Sexual compatibility is ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL to a happy long term relationship.
I'm so sorry you had to find this out the hard way. Divorce the bitch. Now. No matter what it takes, get out. If you don't, you are condemning yourself to a life of frustrated misery... or being driven to cheat and then you get a divorce except she'll have the upper hand.
I love how she made her past your problem like that. She had no problem giving it up for random jerks in the past but the man who was to be her husband she's frozen out.0