I secretly wear my wedding band so that people at work or randoms like my dentist think im married. Its gonna be a while before we can save for the wedding (no, I will not go to the courthouse id like to do it right- and once) and I've waited long enough so im "pretending" is that sad or is it ok since we will be married at some point? Also, we have a baby and I feel better knowing that people will assue I was married before I got pregnant.
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When my husband had found me on Facebook four years ago, we made plans for me to visit and meet up with him and his family, also had even discussed getting Married.
While out in Egypt, we went to to a jewelry store out in Benha, which is near his village, and bought these beautiful Silver wedding bands and placed them on our fingers, calling ourselves "husband and wife."
However, my Next trip out a few years back right after That, we went to the Ministry of Justice with our rings still hooked to our fingers and, then, as my husband and I sat, bound in one another's arms and legs as we sat up, he had said the lady at this office told him that we were to Exchange these rings to Seal everything in Being Legally Now... Husband and wife.
Everyone who has someone and even have Engagement rings or Not, sometimes have their own Reasons of the Seasons for 'Married at this point,' and I believe that even after 7 years, you are Considered common law spouses if living together.
With a child and Knowing you both are these birds of a feather, it is Another sense of security on and off the job.
I see no 'Pretending' in your case here, dear. It helps keep the tongues around the water cooler from wagging and you having to waste your own space in everyone's face.
Good luck. xx0