I'll be turning 18 this year and my parents are gonna get me engaged to a guy who's 27. Im not into this, I've gone through many terrible things and I'm scared. I'm gonna suicide if this happens. That guy is a sex freak and he irritates me, I always feel disgusted when he talks or calls me. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
No body should ever force you into a marriage at all, period. You are 18 and old enough to make your own decisions. I know you are scared and i wish and pray you never have to go through something like this. I think you need to talk to your parents again and be honest and true with them, if they cannot hear their own daughters plea, then you need to go to some social worker or to the authorities and notify them somehow.
And please don't do anything to take your life. Just know you are worth it. He does not deserve a lady like you. Don't commit yourself to him and if you are forced into doing anything with him, please contact the authorities.1
Most Helpful Girl
Contact the authorities. Right away. It's just one call, or one single talk with a person that can save your entire life.
Do it before it is too late. Because once you are carried away in this vicious thing it is going to be so diffcult to get out of it. You can do it and everything will be alright, it soon won't matter anymore if you deal with it correctly and talk to the right people. If your parents might be violent when they find out you are not going to do what they have planned for you, make sure you are in a safe place by the time they discover it.
And please, don't take your life, you are so young, there are so many great things waiting for you. We all go through horrible things in life, I promise you, no matter how long it lasts, pain is always momentary.
Good luck, and I'll pray for you.0