My friends say its unfair if she's already given herself to someone else before marriage but won't do the same for you. What do you think?
Most Helpful Girl
It's kind of like a guy getting mad because a girl did anal in a previous relationship but didn't like it and won't do it again for him.
It's something that should be discussed in the beginning of the relationship. You should know if she wants to wait or not.4
Most Helpful Guy
For me, yes, I'd wait.
I've had sex but would rather wait until I was married or in a committed relationship (months later). Sex complicated things in my last relationship so I'd rather be in a strong relationship before getting that intimate.2