I think she's just being nice.
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... And apparently still friends till the end.
Enough is enough, @Nathand. It's one thing that she has them on her bud list but it is Another that she Puts them on her Bridal list.
Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Tell her if she plans on walking down that isle to Meet you, take them off that Lover List right now Or... Forever she will Not be in peace because you gave her away before dad did.
Good luck and hopeful blessings. xx1