Engaged to your SO? I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year, and if he proposed I'll see it as commitment.
- A few weeks/months7% (1)10% (1)8% (2)Vote
- A year20% (3)30% (3)24% (6)Vote
- 2/347% (7)30% (3)40% (10)Vote
- 4/520% (3)0% (0)12% (3)Vote
- 6/70% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
- Longer6% (1)30% (3)16% (4)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
3 years if your a strong couple1
Most Helpful Girl
for me it'd be at least 1 year. and i'd like to live with the person beforehand and truly get to know them, and how they act under certain pressures and deal with certain situations. i feel like people rush into relationships too often and don't actually know the person they're marrying. then they get divorced because they decide they aren't as good together as they thought. there really shouldn't be a rush..
not all people who get together quickly don't work out, obviously. but i feel like that happens with lots of people that i know.
for me i'd like to wait at least 2-3 years.1