So my wife brought up the other day that as a one year anniversary gift she would like to get some professional photos taken of her in a risqué baseball theme photo shoot for me, because she thinks I would find it very sexy as I am a former high level baseball player. I honestly would find it sexy and I love the fact that she wants to do this for me and have them blown up and put up on the walls of my man cave. I am just having a little trouble with this. I am not ok with someone else (especially another man, gay or straight) seeing my wife partially or half nude and the idea of it makes me sick to my stomach. The other unsettling part of this is that I am afraid of these pictures being part of a photographer's future portfolio or just the idea that our copies may not be the only ones. I would be so upset if they made their way onto the Internet because a photographer had no professionalism.
Am I wrong to feel this way? I did not tell her no yet, but I did tell her it makes me feel a little uncomfortable and my concerns as well. Is this something that women think about doing for their husbands? I have never heard of women asking their husbands if they would like something like this. I am just worried about her safety and her integrity as a women, my wife, and a human being. Please, husbands and wives let me know what you think about this and please include your experiences if you have any.
Most Helpful Girl
Well I've haven't been married but if it is something that is concerning you why don't you suggest the idea of you being the one taking the pictures. I'm not sure if there's some professional equipment you could rent but maybe that would be a fun activity for the two of you to do together, plus it's sort of bonding time.1
Most Helpful Guy
I think you can assuage most of these fears by telling her to hire the best, most professional person she can find.
Also, cherish your wife, man. That's an awesome gift!1