brb woman's body degrades like milk in a hot car (accelerates real fast after 30)
brb who pays for everything (men mostly do)
brb no more fun sex (sex became sparsed and spread out as marriage progreses)
brb crying squealing little shithead kids
brb girls these days slut around in their youth then lie about their numbers to get married.
brb girls would do most degrading shit with some guys and not with you even though they your wife.
brb trading red sports car for mini van to support 5 family
brb the cost of education these days, and the education system is pretty chit tbh
Most Helpful Girl
People usually fuck up marriage by thinking that way. Usually people marry the wrong person and they don't think about whether they'll like them after years of being together. If you truly love someone y'all will be happy and I don't know about the sex thing I know older couples with better sex lives than 20 year olds lol. No you don't have to trade your Mustang for a mini van only if you're planning on being like the 19 Kids & Counting. Y'all could be the cool ass parents. That's how mine were, they had a Pontiac. If you find a woman who has self worth and who worth put up with any bullshit then you won't have to worry about her "degrading" herself. I feel like your perception of marriage is off because what you just described is stereotypes that will come true if you marry the wrong person. im just taking my time and waiting until I find someone and my goals are to never become that.0
Most Helpful Guy
Well marriage back then was different. Marriage today? It's viewed and the marriage certificate is signed as a business contract by the state. There is no benefit for a man to get married. You mentioned everything, but also forgot to add nagging, telling what you can and can't do, and the infidelity with these hookup apps. by the way, some new trend called cuckolding. Check it out for laughs. Not to mention that the courts are against men. 50% divorce where 69% women initiate divorce and 1/3 of women wouldn't marry the current spouse if they could do it over. The other 50% doesn't account whether the marriage is intact due to misery, finance, or true happiness. Not to mention the child support and alimony (or what I call vaginamony). Men in most cases don't get child custody. Paternity fraud is a big one. 30% fathers take care of kids that are not even theirs. Imagine you own a multibillion dollar business that you worked your ass for 20 years. You "settle down" with this girl and get married. In the 5th year, she wants a divorce and let's say she is cheating too. She gets HALF of the business assets, stock, IRA, etc. All the struggles to make his business big and some girl takes it like its nothing. No way Jose. I am out. Even if I would marry, I would marry a foreign woman WITH a prenup.2