I'm married with no kids. I go out with my female best friend/college ex girlfriend. after a night of drinking with friends, I spend the night at her house. we sleep in the same bed. we flirt and I make her laugh. she even rubs my abs when in bed. we have had numerous sex and dated in college. we have even once had sex in a library. and we go to raves and bars together. my wife is forbidding me from seeing her. but I sneak out and lie that I'm at a male friends house. and I sleep with my arm around her and once even kissed her on the neck.
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Yes. It is. It is on several levels. For one thing, you are being dishonest with your wife. I would consider such an action on my part inappropriate. For another thing, you are dishonoring her request that you don't see her. If it's that important to her, you should be willing to do what she asks.
Finally, you are having an intimate relationship with another woman. Sex is around the corner. Yiure headed for some really big trouble.
My advice is to figure yourself out before you have children.0