I'm going to be joining the military for around 6-8 years after I'm done high school. I also want to be married, and cheating is something I'll never do and I refuse to put up with it from the other person. But I also hear that many soldiers marry some pretty trashy girls that marry so that they can cheat in the first place. Based on those with experience in these matters, would I just as likely to be cheated on if I married a VERY non trashy, self-respected, Christian girl, like whom I will probably be marrying in a year or so (- my girlfriend -). I just want to make sure, because the last thing I want would be divorced and then pay child support and get in this huge wrecking ball, and have wasted all that time being with a women who doesn't give a **** about me.
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No, not almost all. Some do, that is the sad truth. But I come from a large military family. My grandmothers never cheated on my grandfathers (both of my parent's dad's were military). My mom never cheated on my dad. My aunts never cheated on their husbands. My cousin doesn't cheat on her husband.
I dated a marine, and even when he went on tour, I did not cheat. You just need to find the right woman with a good morality and values. There is still no guarantee, but there should be trust and respect in the relationship.1