It happened to me : I know a ring is nothing if somebody wants to be unfaithful, but I really like to see it on my partner's finger as a symbol of our marriage. He refuses to wear it, he says it's for old or gay people. I didn't expect this and now I'm so so sad.
Most Helpful Guy
Gay people? As in the ones who were just legally ALLOWED to marry each other at all the last few years?
He's either stupid, looking for an excuse (a really stupid one) to not wear it so that way he can cheat, or both.3
Most Helpful Girl
I would be kind of bummed too. You just marry this guy, you are in love and then he tells you "nope, that ring, not wearing it". And his excuse is pretty lame in my opinion. I think it's pretty awesome that gay people can get married now. They had to fight for something that so many people could just do without thinking about it, because a few people thought it was wrong.
To me, I would be honoured to share something in common with someone who was gay and was finally able to marry.1