I married a momma's boy, I knew he was a momma's boy when we first got together but since we got married his relationship with his mom is taking it's toll on our marriage. She is taking advantage of us, using us as a taxi, using our food stamps even though we have two kids, even coming to out house DAILY to shower... I've told him that it bothers me, but he got pissed and started defending her... I feel isolated and lonely but I don't want to pull the bitch card just yet and make him choose, what should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
If you make him choose, you will lose, so instead consider a different approach such as moving.1
Most Helpful Girl
At the end of the day he's going to be loyal and respectful to his mum. It's tough because you'd hope that now that he's married he would put your feelings ahead and especially because you're a family, you're not just a girl he's seeing. You can't make him choose but you have to come to a middle with him, tell him that maybe his mum can come over less- certain days a week so your family can have family time0