My boyfriend started asking me what kind of rings I like and the type of style I want and how many karats I want. Could he know already? I know every guy and relationship is different
Are there any guys who knew they wanted to marry their wives/girlfriends after dating for only three -six months of dating?
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I thought I knew and it's not necessarily "wise", but passionate love and wisdom don't necessarily go hand-in-hand.
The feelings can definitely be super strong at this kind of point and genuine. For the older people who like to recite that this form of love is just passion, not true love, I think they actually have it wrong or forgot something of their youth. The guy might even fight a bear for you. Love is devotion.
The huge lottery-style gamble here is counting on that feeling, in its precise form, to last forever. That's generally not going to happen after mortgages, kids -- suddenly spending time with that love of your life is starting to become routine, mundane, and that leggy secretary is giving him dark thoughts.
So one of the things that's definitely foolish about rushing to get married as a result of true love is not necessarily that it isn't "true love", but simply that if it is, marriage can wait. That's taking a shortcut and skipping all the endurance tests. It doesn't help anything, and might even make what would otherwise be a long-lasting relationship worse.
Therefore, I generally think it's foolish, but don't doubt the feeling whatsoever. A young man can be completely infatuated with a girl to the point where he'll build his entire life dream around her. It's probably completely foolish and headstrong, but it's a feeling that older people like myself can only envy.1
marriage is far these days, people like to have boyfriend and girlfriend and want to go on like forever, coz marriage bounds them , if he thinking to marry u even just after six months, i think u r lucky., if a guy want to marry quickly and have a family, i think its excellent. the proof of he is genuine.
but u make sure frm ur side, he is the guy u would like to spend a life with , do the proper homework2
That said, there's something to be said for waiting a year or two till honeymoon phase is over.0
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