When you over 25 but not yet 30, do you ever get pressured from society or even your friends/family to settle down with someone? Would you rather be single and happy or unhappy but have a partner cuz you don't end up finding the right one?
Do you ever get pressured for marriage when approaching 30?
What Guys Said 10
Nah my parents and friends don't really talk about it. I think they know that I don't need to be in a relationship or married to be happy. They would support me if it did happen.1
I know girls who have dated and even married because they just thought they would rather be with a jackass then be alone. Of coarse i have no right to judge them but thats a shitty way to live life. I would never date soneobe just so i can be with soneone, but oh well. Everyone has a right to live their life how they want for better or worse. I suggest you do want YOU want to do and fuck what society or what other people think.1
Well, look at it this way. Your options start to diminish when you hit 30+. So if you aren't finding the guy now, why would you find him in your 30's with less power/options?1
It's funny, I've never gotten a single "hey pal, when are ya gonna settle down?" from *anyone*. Not ever.
Do I feel any pressure? No, not in the slightest. I'd ideally like to have kids in the next several years, or at least be on the path toward that, but I feel zero immediate pressure.0
I get asked when I'm getting married sometimes, it doesn't bother me. Other people can't put pressure on you unless you let them.0
Life is full of pressure, but its up to you to let people choose your destiny. I dont rush nothing when has it ever worked out. patience0
At the moment I'm just asked where's my girlfriend. I wouldn't be surprised if I was constantly asked when I'd settle down with someone after 25.0
I'd have to get married by 24 otherwise I'd be too old!0
What Girls Said 6
lol, my mother use to tell me I needed to settle down a decade ago. which is extra of because I wasn't even dating anyone at the time. luckily, she's given up on bothering me about it.0
It started at the age of 18 lol!!! 😭😂0
Lol, I know my mom will never pressure because she knows I will say yes whenever she mentions it.0
I'm 23 and people won't stop asking little do they know I've been engaged a year.0
Funny. I got pressured by my aunts until I was 25 lol After that no mention of it anymore.0