I always dreamed and fantasied about my weeding since i was a little. Now it's going to happen! I can't wait :)
Wearing a veil was always on my plans, but my friends and family don't agree. A few say that's very old-fashion and im not a virgin so i don't need it. Others say that idea is so stupid it will take off the beauty of the dress lol
Now they just made me wonder if i really want to wear a veil or no... im undecided
what you think? I need some more opinions.
And girls, would you want to marry with a veil covering your face? Or if you're already married, did you wear it?
- Yes veilVote A
- No veilVote B
Most Helpful Guy
There is nothing about a wedding dress, currently or historically that has anything to do with virginity.
Most of the structure and form of the modern wedding is a historic recreation of the wedding between Queen Victoria and Prince Albert nearly 2 centuries ago.
The white fabric was chosen because it was expensive to make and to care for as befits a person of royal birth. Modern manufacturing technology and chemistry have put these extravagances within the reach of common people.
These same people then over-interpret the meaning of the dress, it's color and the veil.
What people think the dress means:
"I'm a pure virgin presenting myself for my deflowering to my new husband on the day of my wedding."
What the dress really means:
"Hey! We're rich too!"
In closing, it's your day, wear whatever you damn well want. Everyone else can STFU.
Have a lovely wedding,
and an awesome marriage.
(That last part is the important part, remember that.)
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Most Helpful Girl
I prefer to be with no veil because to me the veil is not that important. What's important is the dress. Most bridal dresses are already extravagant ( in a good way), so I don't feel adding a big accessory, aka: the veil. In the other hand, I don't mind wearing the veil if it fits nicely, doesn't mess up my hairstyle, and doesn't distract away the beauty of my dress. When we think of a bride, we usually imagine her with a white dress and veil 👰 , it's a classic. If you're more into that classical, traditional, old fashioned look, then go for the veil. That's just my opinion, at the end go for whatever look you want. By the way, congratulations for your wedding.1