She's having her sister and best friend as bridesamaids and her little sister and little cousin as a flower girl. I've got three little sisters, one of them she really hates so I don't expect her to be one but my little little sisters are only 7 and 9 I told them they probably will be one a long time ago. I just expected her to let them be one, but she's not. I said to her about it and she said no there's no need for two more flower girls!
she told them right to there faces no
I'm trying to convince her but I'm running out of time. But I'm soo angry at her for being horrible to little girls who basically idolize her!
How can I change her mind?
Am I right to be angry?
Most Helpful Girl
Well they are too young to be bridesmaids, but you should be working together to find a role to include them in the wedding.
One on my friends married a guy with 5 little sisters, ranging in age from under 5 to college aged. Only the oldest was a bridesmaid, the two youngest were flower girls and the middle two had a different role (it was 5 years ago so my memory is a little fuzzy of what exactly they did).
Are your sisters musically inclined? Have them play a song during the ceremony.
Or they can do a reading for you guys, if they aren't.
If she refuses to include them in any capacity then you are absolutely right to be upset about it. You need to work together to find a place for these girls in the wedding.0
Most Helpful Guy
It's really a mater of which is more important to you, the woman or the family. If she won't compromise now this will be the rest of your life. Walk away now while its only going to cost you the price of the wedding, before it becomes alimony and child support. Go go now.1