A ring that she had bought in anticipation of getting engaged.
I really like the idea of either both having engagement rings or neither.
- I'd love it!23% (7)44% (15)34% (22)Vote
- I'd hate it!17% (5)15% (5)16% (10)Vote
- I'd be indifferent17% (5)29% (10)23% (15)Vote
- Other43% (13)12% (4)27% (17)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
Wouldn't matter to me. I don't have some mental complex that would make me feel emasculated if the girl did this. At most, other people might judge me like I was a chicken or not manly or something, assuming they found out, but still I wouldn't really care.
That said, don't do this just because he seems hesitant to marry you and it's your way of forcing his hand. Don't do this to manipulate. The two should both be open to the idea before you propose.0
Most Helpful Girl
Good idea, at the end marriage is sharing a life not a money challenge.1