before you say i would, know they have a divorce rate of 75 percent.., your parnters old lover whos a parent of your step daughter will likely be around, you're spending money on someone elses kid and eventually have to become their step monther/father to make it work with your lover, if the child doesn't like you, he/or she will more likely end it...
its very risky and costly to take the chance... not to mentiona man like me hate hearing about their pst but the child will put images in your head of them having sex in the past... etc... it surely will bug me a lot.
Most Helpful Girl
Yes and I did. My SO had a seven year old daughter. She is now 21 and at uni and we have had another boy and a girl (11 and 9). Everything has been great.1
Most Helpful Guy
Both of my kids are grown, so it's kind of like I don't have kids anymore, at least ones I have to raise. So I wouldn't have any problem at all dating someone with kids. And I personally never hate hearing about a partner's sexual past. I encourage them to talk about it if they feel comfortable.0