The first year of marriage isn't all roses and sunshine, as many couples well know. If you've had experience with challenges in your first year of matrimony, what were they, and how did you deal with them?
Be as specific as you like. :)
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We are still in our first year of marriage. Even though I've known him since I was five and him six, and thought I knew all about him, I am still discovering little things about him and he is about me.
Things like he doesn't like to be startled while asleep, gets him really hyper for quite a while. He never knew I sometimes wake up as the Royal B! tch Woman for no reason, luckily on very rare occasions. I learned he needs his space first thing in the morning. He doesn't like to share the bathroom when taking a poop! (Gets him embarrassed or something!!) I could care less!
Just funny little quirky things we both do, none that get on each other's nerves but there surprising in ways. He wakes up with hair that looks like it was styled with a mixer, ok I knew that one already. Still worth ribbing him over!
It's not all sex, well it's a lot of sex, a lot of the time; actually our sexual encounters are more loving, tender and frequent after getting married. I've learned I can't bear to be apart from him, last year we did long distance relationship during the week; not sure I could do that now. Probably could if we absolutely had to but it would really hurt us both.
Even being best friends all the time we were growing up, there are so many little things we do that are growing together as a couple. I think it would amaze me to step back a year and see us now how much our relationship has grown together. We have yet to have an argument, we know one another so well that we don't tend to need to argue. Not to say it will never happen.
Some say the first year is hard to adjust to, I haven't found it that way at all. I think it is easy to grow together as long as you commit to being together.0