I've been together with my boyfriend for a month and a half and he wants to elope asap. I want to wait till like Oct 2017 to get married. I want to go through the proposal and have all my extended family at my wedding
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Although it does happen, I'm someone who wants to be really sure.
In my opinion it takes at least a year of living together and sharing your worries, joys and interests before being able to make such a decision. Rather 2 to 3 years than less :o
The chances that you'd make a decision and later discover there were too many delicate aspects of each others' personality you were not aware of, are really high.1