Despite being married for 3 years, I still lack the courage to let my husband see me in bright lights. We mostly have sex in the dark and recently he's bugging me about having sex in lights. We already have a 1 year old son and it makes me even more afraid after the birth. I don't think he will like my body. His ex girlfrieds are all models and that makes me feels worse because I'm definitely far from hot. I'm like a housewife next door while all the girls around him wear sexy two piece office suits or bodycons. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
he married you. he wants to see you. he wants YOU.
so stop being so self conscious. Stop comparing yourself to every other woman out there, even to the other women he was with.
Maybe, objectively, the are better looking. That is bound to happen to us all. 7 billion people, no matter how good you look, someone out there looks better.
So what? He married you, not them. He had a kid with you, not them. He is having sex with you, not them. And he wants to see you, not them.1
Most Helpful Girl
he married you for a reason and not those models, the more you refuse the more frustrated he gets, let him see it, with time he will get use to it, he loves you.1