Guys and Girls, if you're married, you love your spouse very much, and then one day you find out that he/she is cheating on you, what will you do?
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If it was a girlfriend, I'd just leave. I wouldn't want to get married to a girl like this, and there'd be no use in dragging it out.
However, with marriage, it gets a little more complicated. I take marriage vows very seriously and the whole "till death do we part" line. I'd want to figure out all the details of the situation (how long it has been going on and such, whether they were sorry/regretted it) and see if it can be remedied or not.
Firstly, I'd go with couples counseling. If I get the feeling they don't care and/or I realize it won't work out, then I'll consider divorce.
When it comes to a serious commitment marriage, I feel like it is important to ask the "Who/what/when/where/why" questions before jumping to conclusions.2