I'm married with a 3 year old daughter. My wife and I stopped having sex due to work schedules. She even decided to stop sex to avoid scaring our daughter (and to prevent her from being ok with premarital sex). She even thought certain cartoons like Pokémon would be violent for her to watch. I make sure to keep a check on her TV time. She even thinks that he should not talk to boys or make interracial friends. I'm more liberal while she is more conservative.
We are both Indian, and married by love (no arranged marriage) and we were NOT virgins before marriage.
At work, I met a beautiful younger Latina woman who started to give me the attention my wife refused to. She also is much more liberal when. It comes to raising children (worked in a day care in College. she laughed out loud when my wife forbade her from watching Pokémon.
We had sex for the first time and have been doing it for a week. My exes were White and Asian and European and Indian, and the coworkeris the first Latina girlfriend i ever had. She loves me and wants me to leave my wife. If I dont, she'll tell my wife. But, I fear a divorce costs and hurting my daughter. I feel bad for hurting my wife and told myself to say no, but I just couldn't resist my coworker. Whenever my wife and daughter go to bed, I stay up late playing adult video games and watching adult movies, and cry since I have put a hole in my family. I love my wife and daughter, yet miss the sex me and my wife had. My wife doesn't want to grab a hotel or lock the bedroom door, as she doesn't want to scar my daughter.
Most Helpful Girl
You're a bad husband and father and that younger woman is a whore. Nonetheless you need to tell your wife. Let her decide. If she wants to stay after you cheated then work on the marriage if she wants a divorce then get one but don't leave her in the dark about this. The best thing you can do is be honest and take it from there. She sounds stupid AF for the stuff she's doing yes, but your weak ass should've said something a took a stand long ago not cheat. Everyone here sounds like a moron. I feel bad for your daughter, but hopefully none of the three of you will screw up her perception of love.6
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Most Helpful Guy
Honestly the best way to deal with this situation is to talk to your wife, i think simply there's been a lack of communication between you, it's not going to be easy, but to avoid letting your marriage fall apart, you'll need to tell her about you cheating on her, and why you did it, because it seems that you just need to re-initiate your conversations with your wife and create a better connection, this might end up making your relationship stronger in the long run, but that really depends on your wife's attitude to things. i wish you all the luck my friend0