I feel very unhappy in my Marriage like a lot of other couples. Many people stay Married for the sake of their Children. Which is my situation.
Have any of you left being in an unhappy marriage and how did you cope and how did your children handle it?
Or who is still in a Marriage for the sake of their children? How do you feel etc?
I am in my early 30s with two children. I feel if i wait until in in my late 30s im worried i will find it hard to find another partner in the future. But also now i have two children and even though im in my early 30s i feel it will be extremely hard to find a partner since i have two children. I am just thinking about how hard it would be to find a partner if i left.
Most Helpful Guy
Have you tried actually working for whatever conflicts are there in your marriage?
The reason why divorce rate is so high is because people these days feel so entitled that they deserve something for nothing and never want to put any effort
Marriage and children are great things, what your life would be like without them? Could you feel happy growing old alone with no stable partner, with no one carrying your heritage after your time?
Go to a marriage counselor
You have a good point however, it is not only about you, it is also about the well being of your children, none of them ever like when their parents split
Most Helpful Girl
This is me. I was unhappy, I have 2 kids and all is well. I divorced him 2 years ago. He's a good guy, just not for me.
My kids are doing just fine too. I think as long as you are able to keep the split amicable the kids do a lot better.
What's weird though is my ex has a girlfriend who does seem nice and decent ( thank god) and I'm happy for him. I really am. The thing that's weird is another woman spending time with my daughter (my son is older and has a life). It feels weird and I feel a little jealous to be honest. I am thankful that she's decent and I can't stop her from seeing/spending time with my daughter when she's with her dad. (we have 50/50 custody)
I think for the reason stated above ^^^^ people stay in a bad marriage. I just can't live like that and my ex deserves someone who wants him too.0