What makes a woman Good Wife Material in your opinion?

[Anonymous]

A wife should submit to the will of her husband.

A bride should be a virgin and a wife should make herself available for procreation whenever possible as well as keeping herself in shape before and after the wedding.

A wife should be able to cook.

Sandwich making can make or break a marriage.

For me the perfect wife material is a christian woman who's not afraid of hard work and holds traditional values about gender roles (though I do like to cook occasionly) and child rearing.
I found a beautiful young woman of such quality and have married her who is all a man could ever wish in a bride. She I more mature than some of the women my own age despite still being in her teens and it was a special day when we were married and an amazing night when she gave her virginity to me. Six months on we are expecting our first child and we both have never been happier.

[ak666]

For me an ideal wife should:

1) Be independent and have her own things to do, giving me some space so that I can hang out with guys and get drunk.
2) Be sexy as hell in the bedroom.
3) Not annoy me too much.
4) Be fun to hang around with.
5) Be supportive when times are rough.
6) Drink alcohol.
7) Split household responsibilities so that I don't turn into a lazy slob who can't do anything without her.

I married this type.

[Asker]

The independent thing is most wives. We want our wives to have a social life with friends and hobbies etc. Not chain them to the kitchen sink until we come home.

[ak666]

Yeah, it's a key part of maintaining our own mutual independence. I married the career woman type, intellectual equal or maybe superior to me in many respects.

In my case some of the traditional roles are inverted since I have my own business and work from a home office mostly, she goes to the office.

We can't have kids unfortunately, but it's life-long fun.

[ak666]

Drinking might seem like a dumb thing to put on there but I like to drink. :-D My wife and I sing Karaoke all night long and tend to get wasted on weekends, while also going to social parties often with drinking. I'd be too incompatible with a girl who never drinks.

[Asker]

as long as your both happy. Alcoholism runs in my family so I never drink.

[ak666]

Happy drunkard -- partying and socializing type (both of us). We're both kind of unofficial "counselors" in our friend group. She's like the "big sister" to everyone (regardless of age), I'm kind of the "uncle" (regardless of age).

[Asker]

I enjoy a good party and revelry but years of sobberity have taught me to leave just before everyone gets too drunk as there is nothing worse than being the only sobber person among guys that are hammered lol

[ak666]

My wife and I both get hammered. Then we try to persuade each other to get out of bed. First one to do it and get water loses. It's usually 50-50.

[FingerDancer]

Bring back SHAME in divorce
Bring back RESPECT for your life partner
Bring back FAMILY VALUE

Bring those things back and a partner will be much easier to find and keep.

[Asker]

Well said.

[LadyTerror]

I was going to believe this before I read till the end. Troll away!

[Asker]

have you no opinion on the subject other than to insult me because my views and opinions differ from your own? what in your opinion makes for good wife material? or even good husband material if you want.

[LadyTerror]

"She I more mature than some of the women my own age despite still being in her teens and it was a special day when we were married and an amazing night when she gave her virginity to me. Six months on we are expecting our first child and we both have never been happier."

Yeah sure.

[Asker]

Yeah sure what?

[OlderAndWiser]

I wrote a myTake about how to choose a woman to be your wife:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10762-who-should-you-marry

[oldanddecrepid]

Beyond religious values, a good woman and potential wife to me is just a good all round woman.

She is faithful, respectful, loving, caring and has her own goals.

I don't want to dictate to her, or control her life, so she has to be someone that is happy on her own, and willing to share in the decision making process.

[TomGarand]

For me, it's tomboyishness and masculine traits in general.

Dominance is the most important one; submissiveness in women is not very attractive to me.

Another trait that makes a woman wife material to me is a willingness to fight and kill others. So if a woman is a cop, soldier, huntress, or has some other job or hobby that will very likely result in bloodshed, she's more attractive to me.

Assertiveness and aggression. Assertiveness because being able to stand up for yourself is hot in general, but aggression makes people more likely to fight and kill. I want a woman who'd make a good warrior or protector of others.

Competitiveness, especially when it comes to sports. I find athleticism and musculature attractive. Six-pack, decent biceps, broad shoulders. And if a woman takes sports and exercise more seriously, she's likely to be packing some muscle.

[Raaj4you]

• Cooking and cleansing
• Good in bed / SEX
• More family oriented
• Educated
• Career oriented
• Mature
• Mentally stable
• Loyal and faithful
• Calm and composed
• Has high moral, ethics and values
• Spiritually inclined
• Emotionally stable
• Kind and big hearted
• Ability to handle stress
• Loving and caring
• Self less
• Sympathetic and empathetic
• Respectful towards people, men, in laws.
• Loves to have babies / kids

[Regulatus]

Cook, clean, have sex with hubby. Anything else is gravy. Unfortunately, even those 3 simple tasks are considered oppressive by modern day women. Never get married!

[Asker]

there are still good women out there.

[Regulatus]

But you'll never find out her true nature until after the wedding. Marriage to a modern woman is like playing Russian Roulette with half the chambers loaded.

[Asker]

thats true. A few years ago I nearly married a complete succubus.

[Touchmehxx]

Hm, little bit more angry

[Regulatus]

@Touchmehxx -- You CANNOT argue that any man would worship a woman who would do those 3 things. You also cannot argue that modern feminism claims all three are sexist and oppressive towards women.

[Touchmehxx]

I'm not saying men wouldn't like them. The fact that you brought that up just shows how you are. Just because men like it doesn't mean women have to do it or its he right thing to do

[Regulatus]

@Touchmehxx --Reread the original question. "What makes a good wife in YOUR opinion" I gave MY opinion.

[Touchmehxx]

Yes i know but you seem to (on other posts as well) not value women and treat them like shit

[Regulatus]

@Touchmehxx --Well, some of the questions people post here are too stupid to give serious replies. They asked stupid questions expecting stupid answers.

[Touchmehxx]

What do you mean by stupid answers

[Regulatus]

@Touchmehxx -- A lot of the questions on this site are purposely written to elicit extremist views in the replies. You know that

[Touchmehxx]

Yeah. So, that's irrelevent. You're views are fucked up

[Regulatus]

@Touchmehxx --We disagree, cupcake.

[Touchmehxx]

Don't 'cupcake' me

[Regulatus]

@Touchmehxx --better than bukkake-ing you, like the rugby team did last weekend

[Touchmehxx]

Nothing wrong with it tho

[Regulatus]

@Touchmehxx --Not until your 20th school reunion, when the team members tell your husband about it. But I doubt you'll have a husband then anyway. You will either have been married and divorced two or three times or you will be a bitter old maid. Hey, YOLO, amirite?

[Touchmehxx]

I don't want to get married and even if I did why would I lie to him about my sexual history, I've got nothing to hide. Why should I be a slave to a man when I can earn a living for myself, I want to do something with law or police or like a lawyer or something I'm pretty sure I could provide for myself

[Regulatus]

@Touchmehxx --Law, police, lawyer, fairy princess, astronaut, You go girl!

[Asker]

@Touchmehxx you remind me of a fifty year old work colleague who talks like this but get drunk at thr Christmas party every year an cries on everyone's shoulder about how she never married and had kids and is so lonely in her big house.

[Touchmehxx]

One person you know wow lets just generalise

[Touchmehxx]

Why are you saying that as if it's not possible for me to do what job I want

[Asker]

@Touchmehxx anything anyone writes on here is a generalisation as there is not enough room to write a thesis.

[Touchmehxx]

Ok leave it out then

[Regulatus]

@Touchmehxx -- No, I'm saying that your possibilities are endless. The world is your oyster as long as you don't screw up your life before it's had a chance to begin.

[Touchmehxx]

How am I screwing up my life by having sex, it doesn't affect how smart I am etc in terms of work ethic so I can get a job

[Regulatus]

@Touchmehxx --It's your life to live as you see fit.

[Touchmehxx]

Exactly. I can still get a job I want and have sex

[Dimmu]

Submition is silly
But being a virgin is scientific thing
The more dicks a woman had the more likely she will divorce

[Asker]

Submission is basically the man having the last say or vetoing anything that he feels will have dire consequences most of the time she will make most of the decisions.

[Dimmu]

That's leading

[Asker]

Yes but in order to lead she must submit to your leadership.

[ThisDudeHere]

Troll/10
https://i.imgur.com/kdQVd1q.gif

[Asker]

Actually your the one training

[genericname85]

doesn´t need much. i like her, she likes me. end of story xD i´m a grown man so i don´t need her to cook for me, cause that´s a skill i have. i don´t need a maid who cleans my room or does the laundry. again i´m a grown man, i can do that myself. i just need them to be my moral and emotional support, good company, friend and sexual partner xD and that´s what i´m willing to give back too.

[Asker]

your missing out.

[genericname85]

on what?

[lumos]

On having a second mom who will clean up after you and bring you a sandwich while you're playing video games in your underwear in the basement :(

[Asker]

@lumos "When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things."

[genericname85]

then how is it that you still want someone to cook for you and make you a sandwich and shit? xD

also being a virgin? are you kidding me? you are what 30-35 years old and you hope to find a virgin in her teens that wants to marry you to be your personal sandwitch maker? xD good luck in that hopeless endeavor, good sir.

[Asker]

I like a woman who knows how to cook for me after a long hard day or make me a sandwich while im doing household chores whats wrong with that?
I already found a virgin teen bride, it wasn't essential but it sure helped me decide to marry her

[genericname85]

well ok if you live in that traditional male bread earner family, where she´s stay at home wife, i think it´s fair enough to expect that she does that. but most women nowadays have to work too so it´s kind of unfair.

[SmelvinRat]

Loyalty- through thick and thin. When things are going good it's easy to get along, be fun, etc. It's when life starts to get tough you will want a loyal dependable partner. It goes both ways...

[Asker]

Sounds like a christian woman

[RJGraveyTrain]

Oh more troll posts.

Well, nothing to see here folks, carry on.

[Asker]

Have you no opinion on the subject?

[RJGraveyTrain]

A good wife is a woman compatible for her partner. This submission b/s is... well, it's b/s. But hey, whatever inflates your goat friend.

[Asker]

Thanks for your input.

[Scrimshaw]

*incoming bitter feminists*

[Asker]

well they should respect other women who choose to live a more traditional lifestyle.

[Scrimshaw]

I completely agree.

[Texaskid1]

Large boobs,
Tight rump,
Makes sanwiches.

Heaven on Earth.

[bcromartie]

I just want a woman who gets shit done. I need someone as aggressive as I am.

[Asker]

Sounds like a christian woman.

[bcromartie]

Never met a Christian woman who met that persona. I do not want or need someone who "submits" to me.

[Asker]

Christian women have a take charge attitude and get things done

[bcromartie]

But submit to their husbands? And this works how?

That's just micromanagement.

[Asker]

micro managing means you'd be supervising her every move and decision like if she was making the dinner for instance. Im not there all day everyday to micro manage.

[bcromartie]

There are varying levels of micromanaging. On essence I don't even want to have to manage her life in any capacity. I don't want to manage anything I don't need to at all.

[Asker]

ultimately your talking about someone who gets you off and leaves. Spouses help each other

[bcromartie]

I don't even need that. More like an partner in a business. Could open alone, chooses to open with you though; you're describing an employee and you're pretty much the boss. They just know the job well.

[Xfitchick]

I think your mind still lives in the 19th century.

[Asker]

early 20th maybe lol

[Spiorad_Aisce]

To each their own but for me a perfect wife would be a lot different to your version.

[Asker]

explain?

[Anonymous]

Mostly women who aren't feminist.

[Asker]

good luck with that.

[anonman32]

an independent woman that is not reliant on me.

[Asker]

in marriage your reliant on each other.

[snowangle]

Cool story.

[Asker]

I suppose it is thank you.

[Wagsman]

Gr8 b8 m8 8/8.

[Asker]

no opinions on the matter m8?

[Anonymous]

Being a good person makes a good wife

[Asker]

not necessarily but it helps.