I'm turning 30 in six months' time, and in spite of searching all this time, still haven't found a single girl through dating who was willing to commit to a relationship without demanding the world and offering me nothing in return. My family's been pressuring me to get an arranged marriage for the past decade now, and I agreed five years ago that if I hadn't found anyone for myself by the age of 30, then I'd accept defeat and agree to an arranged marriage to a girl of their choice from India (where my family's originally from). There's no way I'll be able to find a girl here in the UK who'll agree to marry me or get engaged in the next six months, and TBH the girls over here aren't really worth all the hassle and the expense anyway- none of them care about love, romance or compassion, all they care about is getting laid, and I'm sick and tired after having been rejected by thousands upon thousands of girls because I'm "too nice", "not experienced enough", and because I "care too much".
I want a good girl, one who can actually appreciate a guy who loves her and cares about her. But over here in the UK, those girls are effectively extinct. And with only 6 months left, I have to resign myself to the fact that I'm never going to find a good girl here in this country, not in such a short space of time, not when I've wasted the last 12 years exhaustively trying to find one, to no avail. So I've decided to throw caution to the wind, take one last throw of the dice, and use the cash I've saved up to go on a Mail Order Brides Romance Tour. Basically, travelling abroad to meet a few potential Mail Order Brides and their families in person (after having scouted them online- the pictures are my best personality-based picks thus far from the chat forums, and they're all 19-25), to find out which girl, if any, might be the best match- and if I really make a connection to one of them, getting engaged to her. So, which country do you think I should go on my Romance Tour in?
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Most Helpful Girl
You can't buy love. I think there's a very small, almost nonexistent, chance of your paid bride to fall in love with you. People tend to not like being bought and treated like an object even if they are doing this willingly. They probably just want a ticket out of wherever they are.0
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Most Helpful Guy
I'd say the Dominican Republic. The girls I've met there are pretty and make very good wives. No way I'd EVER consent to an arranged marriage. Culture be damned !0