I love being around children and I've also been told that I'm very nurturing and would make a great mother someday. Nowadays I feel like a child free life would give me a lot of freedom. I also have tons of nieces and nephews to spend time with so I would never feel lonely.
Most Helpful Guy
I'm a proponent of Anti-Natalism so it's pretty much relevant. Also more or less an existential nihilist ir existentially nihilistic. There is much pain, suffering and death and hardships in our world and our reality that I will never ever agree to bring and condemn someone to. Don't be fooled by the age displayed on my profile, I'm much older than just "18".
But I'm Not a hedonist either, I thought about those guys that are childfree and never willing to settle or commit to any woman but I'm not one of them and I do Not agree with the whole sleep around, do drugs, drink frequently and party frequently, play video games all day long or watch movies and TV all day long such as on NETFLIX type of hedonistic childfree lifestyle either.1
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly yes, I do want kids but the more I think about it the more I realize that I really only want them for selfish reasons. I want a mini-me to give all my love and attention too. I'm curious to see if they'd look more like me or act more like me or if they would look/act like their dad. The more I think about my reasoning for wanting kids the more I realize I might not want them at all. After all, it's really not necessary to produce more children, humans are far from dying out and I think bringing more humans into this world will only maximize the speed of its destruction. There are plenty of children in the foster care system that need homes and someone to love and care for them, so I'm starting to think I may want to adopt instead.. even if I won't get my mini-me.0