Ahh... marriage... you walk down a aisle, say a few false blessings, kiss, and then congrats you're tied to this person for the rest of your natural life. Seriously, what is the point of marriage?
Now before you wild tradcons start writing me angry comments, just consider this:
Marriage was ok I guess, in the 50s and the 60s but in today's day and age, it's nothing but pain for the average male.
During a video sent out by PragerU (which I will write a mytake on later) they said, the benefit of marriage for a man makes a man work more hours and makes a man more responsible.
Seriously? The only benefit they could find was that it made a man work more and earn more money. It's the current year, why would a man need to earn more money when married? Doesn't his wife have her own job? Shouldn't she have her own job? I mean, it IS the current year.
Another thing people constantly talk about is, children, who in the hell needs marriage to have children? Surrogacy is a better option if you want a child, because unlike marriage, you aren't eternally bonded to the woman who has your kid. To me, surrogacy is a much fairer option than marriage. The woman gets her money, and you get the kid, then you both walk away. Easy and fair deal.
Companionship? You don't need a wife for companionship. Just date, or have some friends, you don't need a legally binding contract to be happy.
Sex? Who needs marriage to have sex, it's the current year. Thanks to feminism girls can be a total S*** so why get married just to have one flavor for the rest of your life when you can spend your entire life enjoying all the flavors?
To me, marriage is a fraud. Although, I speak about MGTOW to numerous men on and off this site, I don't consider myself apart of the organization, I just see it as a good gateway for men. 50% of marriages end in divorce, some women make careers out of marriage just to divorce and collect alimony, so why would you risk half your possessions and earnings for nothing?
Most Helpful Girl
until i met the guy i'm with now, i had no intention of ever being married. but he's always wanted it~ he was engaged twice before we met, though he never made it to the altar.
so i asked him this question, and all he said was, "call me naive, but i believe in love".
perfect answer. and that's why our marriage, when it happens, will be the first (and only) one for both of us. i don't need fancy things or a big party, and the idea of marrying him doesn't scare me because it won't fundamentally change our relationship... which, by the way, is easier than an updo lol.
a good wedding and a good marriage are not the same thing, and that's the part that i think most people don't understand. as someone who comes from a family where most marriages failed before the 10-year mark, i'm aware of the risk. but it's one that, for the person i love more anything in the world, i'm willing to take.0
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Most Helpful Guy
The only man in today's world that would want to get married are those men that have been successfully brainwashed into sacrificing their lives for women - through movies, books, music and TV shows - and their heavily gynocentric upbringing from kindergarten through masters degree. Everything you see or hear put out by mass media has but one intention: the mass enslavement of men to women.
MGTOW: Never give a women or a white knight the legal, financial, social, physical, financial or psychological power to destroy your life.
ANTI-MGTOW: Say whatever is necessary to keep men from becoming MGTOWs, for our own sake. We need those little disposable betas to keep getting destroyed. It's good for the womenz and white knightz - dontcha know.
Women and white knights hate beta males. Why? Because they're 'good guys'. Women and white knights look down their noses at men capable of responsibility, devotion, love, empathy and compassion. Why? Too boring. Not enough excitement. Easily manipulated. Boring, boring, boring. Plus - there's a ton of money to be made and much forced wealth transfer to be had to the benefit of women and white knights - which is why ever more anti-male laws and policies need invoking. Beta males, while the engine of society, are the scorn of the earth. They need to be kept in their place - lest women and white knights suffer.
It's all so simple - yet so difficult to comprehend for those without a clear understanding of women's and white night's hatred of 90% of men. How does one counter their hatred? Cut off their life support - which is your eventual destruction. Sever their jugular - their hatred of betas. Simply refuse to leave yourself vulnerable to the laws, policies and social constructs they use to destroy your life. Simple, simple, simple.
Men - if you want a good life - don't waste your resources on a woman. Stay single and stay free of the torture sure to follow signing that most man hating of contracts called 'marriage'.1