When a family member visits Syria he sends money to his family (mid class & can afford a decent lifestyle) I don't mind but now his father is asking to send money to buy us property there which I'm not happy about (why would you buy property in an unstable country?). My husband seems to be convinced that $500/month is reasonable to help is family & for property & I think this is too much. My opinion is to save here for property & provide assistance for small expenses for his family. I have no issue with him helping them, even though really we shouldn't be paying for his sisters uni pocket money or new curtains for his parents or for fixing their mobile phones & I can't keep using my credit card. I don't mean to come across as a tight ass, but what bothers me is that he is overly attached to his family, anything his father says 90% he will do, unless I convince him in a very nice way not to.
When I try to discuss this issue with him he just clams up, doesn't want to hear my say, gets angry & says my opinion is 'stupid' & it's none of my business. This time he walked out of the house & went for a 1/2 hour drive & didn't talk to me for the rest of the night or this morning which is upsetting
Am I wrong for thinking that $500/month is too much to give to his family? Considering that the rest of his income is $5500 left over & we agreed to save & buy property here in future. I just hate how his family has such a grip over him & it always comes between us.
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