I would love to be married with a 7/10 and with kids... that would make me happy.
But i am smart enough to understand that in today's society that is extremely risky and i would have to become doormat to be considered a "good husband" when i am actually way opposite of that. I want to be in control of my life and i want to lead... i want to be a MAN.. they type of man that lived 100 years ago where they were the leaders of the househod and ran the family... all my friends who are in ltr's or married let their wife/gf be head of household and make decisions and honestly i could never do that.
Add to the fact that i know men / women are not designed/made to be with one person for the rest of their life eventually they will want to fuck.
The sucky part is that i am 28 and i am starting to feel like a loser for not being married because many of my friends/family my age are. They constantly ask me when are you going to married why are you not married like something is wrong with me but i know marriage is not for me as it would be very hard to find someone that would make it work between the two of us because i still yern to be THE MAN who leads and doesn't take shit from anyone and that would consider me a "bad husband" in most women views.
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i already gave up, there is no point. Do what i do... i date women, have sex and then move on. That way i am satisfied and move on with my life without the extra baggage and women are independent, so they can take care of themselves. Marriage is useless in my opinion.3