before marriage, we have sex, we do lots of sexual things... so what is the importance of marriage? even we have kids before marriage..
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah, I plan to wait until I am married (If I get married), before I do those things.
Getting married mean you have to make a commitment. You have to stay with the same person till the end. Personal, I take relationships seriously, and I know I will put a lot of effort into a relationship. That is way I am not sure if I want to get married.
If your going to get married, then you and the girl have to put a lot of effort in the marriage, together. It is not a one sided thing. If you make it that, then the marriage will fall apart.4
Most Helpful Guy
Being Christian, I believe marriage should always come before sex, and never take place with anyone other than their spouse.
Either way, it should be seen as dedication in love. The two telling each other through it that they never want to leave their side, spending the rest of their entire lives together, and will never love any one else nearly as much.2