I think that it's impossible! After a whole day of getting ready (make up, hairdresser, clothing) and dancing etc the bride and her groom would be super exhausted. I would expect that the first thing on their mind once they're in their house/ hotel room is to sleep after a tiring day, specially if the bride is virgin and would need some time and preparation so it won't hurt (the guy needs to take his time) and after a long day they might not be ready to take a lot of time.
If you're not married yet, do you think you'll have sex the day of the wedding?
- I'm married/I've been married and we had sex on the wedding night.9% (3)25% (14)19% (17)Vote
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- I'm not married yet and I think I'd have sex on the wedding night50% (16)38% (21)42% (37)Vote
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Most Helpful Guy
I'm having sex on the wedding night lol. As a virgin male, this is literally the night of my dreams -- the night I have been fantasizing about since puberty. The wedding night to a guy is akin to the wedding day for a woman. Frankly, I would be disappointed if I did not finally get to have sex on the night of the wedding. The moment we burst through that door I'm stripping naked and then doing the same to her. Granted, if she is really as tired and exhausted as you say, I would back off. But I would be greatly disappointed, and possibly take it as a sign of disinterest on the very first night being married.0
Most Helpful Girl
If they're anticipating doing it beforehand, then they may take things easy the night of the wedding.
Not drink so much, do more mingling than dancing.
I don't know any virgins who waited until marriage so I can't really properly weigh in. But I do understand where you're coming from with the tired bit.
My sister and her husband were so tired after their wedding they only had the energy to unlace her corset and then they both just passed out.
But they'd also been living together for a year already and fucked on the regular1