I know it's awhile from now, but if I were to get married (I'm neutral on marriage), I would not want a wedding. It just seems like some big event to put a bunch of people who haven't seen you in awhile and don't know other people and they all just kinda awkwardly mingle.
I'd just rather celebrate my relationship privately with my new spouse then maybe throw a small party (all super casual) for the people who have made a difference and supported the relationship. Everyone else can find out on the Christmas card lol.
Anyways I've been critized for wanting to be married but not wanting a wedding. Are my thoughts that far out there?
Most Helpful Guy
naw... not sure why you invited me to share, you likely know how i feel about marriage.. but hey, i support any marriage that doesn't include me ;)
i think you're wise in your approach-this is about an intimate relationship, why should the ceremony be a big show off event? don't get a pricey diamond ring either-that's a racket that only fools fall for. get something special for your rings, be individuals2
Most Helpful Girl
Terribly Expensive, Way Over rated and Many times Down the Love Line... Divorce May come their way.
Of course, it is Far Off from now, and you never know, you may Change your mind, where your Hunny Bunny and his own Family, would Want a Cinderella Wedding, Glass shoe with Ball and All.
Good luck and Mature Outlook, @KittieCat xx1
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